Hi everyone first of all thank you for all the replies to this thread, it was very helpful for me.
I am sad to say I received an email from Stephen Kick (CEO of Night Dive) shortly after sending the questions.

"due to the complexity of our licensing agreement we may not be able to answer your questions. If we do, we have to submit them for approval with the licensor which can be an arduous and time consuming task."

It's such a shame becasue he agreed to the answer the questions but changed his mind.
I guess if enough people request answers he might do something about it.
This is his twitter account https://twitter.com/pripyatbeast

Man that's a real shame. I was hoping Nightdive would reach out towards the community and discuss the problems upon release and talk about improving the game in how the fans want it and etc.

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I agree wholeheartedly... and I can't even get the game to run for more than half an hour at a time!

Knowing Kaiser's work for many years I have seen how much work he puts into his projects and how much he cares about the things he puts out.  I have no doubt that both remasters were created with the best of intentions and I can forgive a lot of bugs and even misteps.  I think a lot of other people could perhaps do the same. 

After all, it's not like these remasters wipe out the existence of the original games.  They merely sit side by side giving everyone more ways to play the series they love.

I'm sure the guys will fix a lot of the problems people have with the multiplayer but don't forget that the game has been built with modding in mind.  All the MP issues can be fixed in one way or another through time and by working together.

Personally, I'm just glad that the Turok series is getting a bit of time in the spotlight again.

is it possible to have a menu as complete as that to host a MP game?

I was super excited to see that the GOG release has been updated.  Sadly, there's still no MP server goodies but at least they're proving they're working on the game.

so where?